There are several things to keep in mind when dealing with excuses.
First of all, don't be intimidated. After two thousand years, no one is going to think of the question that will destroy the Christian faith. Then remember the following:
- An excuse frequently hides the real reason. Ask them questions to clarify the real issue.
- Avoid an argument. You can win a debate but lose a person to Christ.
- Exemplify Christ-like behavior at all times. Be humble!
- Present the entire gospel if at all possible. People are not converted by our answers, but by the power of the gospel.
- Trust the work of the Holy Spirit. Remember to separate your role and God's role.
- If the person rejects, try to give her something to take with her to read. She may pick it up at a later time and be open to the gospel.
- Don't get sidetracked, but always point people back to Jesus Christ.
Lord, give us all boldness and wisdom to make the most of every opportunity to share You with others.
